Women's Concerns counselling in BC

Certain aspects of biological, environmental, and social challenges may put women at a higher risk of developing mental health concerns.

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Signs

What women's concerns can feel like

Many women carry pressures around health, family and work that others may not see. It may be time to reach out when these pressures keep affecting your mood, sleep, relationships or sense of self.

  • Feeling dismissed when you talk about your health
  • Low mood or worry after having a baby
  • Grief or guilt after a pregnancy loss or abortion
  • Feeling stretched thin by caring for others
  • Pain or cycle changes that wear down your mood
  • Being judged at work for your health or family
  • Pressure to look, act or be a certain way
  • Losing track of who you are outside your roles

How counselling helps

What working on it together looks likeHow counselling helps

  1. Early on

    Understand what you carry

    With your counsellor, you name the pressures in your life, from health and body changes to family and work. Then you look at how they shape your mood.

  2. As you go

    Cope day to day

    You practise ways to ease stress, guilt and low mood. You also practise speaking up for yourself with family, at work or at a medical appointment.

  3. Over time

    Move forward your way

    You set goals that fit your values and your life now. That might mean new boundaries, more rest or more room for what matters to you.

Where

In person in Burnaby, Surrey and Vancouver, or onlineWhere

About

More about women's concerns

Certain aspects of biological, environmental, and social challenges may put women at a higher risk of developing mental health concerns. Research has shown however that many of these challenges may in part be due to gender stereotypes and assumptions rather than structural or physiological differences. There’s no doubt though that women’s bodies and the way they are treated in society play a role overall. Many women facing Women’s Issues have often been labelled and stigmatized as being over-emotional, which through the years has lead to devaluing their questions and concerns about their mental and physical health. Women have often been told that heavy painful menses are normal, or that pregnancy or childbirth should be something that comes naturally to most. From this, women often view themselves differently or feel the need to hide their emotions and are placed in a vulnerable position about their overall health.

What are some issues that could be affecting women’s mental health?

  • Gender identity & stereotypes
  • Employment and wage inequality
  • Sexism
  • Divorce, separation, loss
  • Pregnancy, pregnancy loss and termination
  • Post-partum depression and psychoses
  • Motherhood and parenting
  • Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) and premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD)
  • Body image and disordered eating like anorexia and bulimia
  • Stress, anxiety, depression
  • Domestic violence
  • Sexual abuse
  • PTSD
  • Substance Abuse
  • HPV and STIs
  • Chronic pain like fibromyalgia or cancer
  • Menstrual disorders like endometriosis or PCOS
  • Reproductive health
  • Menopause

How do these issues affect mental health in women?

For centuries women have been faced with issues of inequality and discrimination. Unfortunately, even today, many women continue to face the same challenges. A woman experiencing painful menses may be criticized for needing to take time off work or school. She may have endometriosis, yet feel undervalued by her medical team, who dismiss her symptoms as something women need to just deal with. Often, these women are put on medication like birth control that may not be treating the issues and instead leads to side effects like weight gain and depression. Some women may need to terminate a pregnancy for various reasons and feel guilt that no one can understand. Others who welcome children go on to face postpartum depression and challenges with motherhood that cause them to view life in a negative manner and affect their day-to-day lives and ability to cope.

Social media also puts a large pressure on young women to look and act a certain way. The influx of edited images creates a false perception of what a woman’s body should look like. Even mothers who view other women and their families on social media may try to relate to a certain standard, not realizing the reality behind the images they view.

It’s fair to say that a number of issues can occur in a woman’s life from adolescence well into adulthood that affects their overall physical and mental health.

How can counselling help?

Recognizing that something doesn’t feel right is often the first step toward improving mental health. Building trust and feeling safe with a therapist can help you work through concerns with support and understanding. Therapy also helps individuals gain confidence, self-awareness, and the tools needed to continue their healing journey.

One-on-one counselling is a great option for those who need to talk to someone about their past and present concerns. Therapists often use various techniques, like CBT, to help one identify how their beliefs, emotions, and actions are all related. They can also help provide resources for women who need to find safe spaces or additional support going forward.

If you think you would benefit from counselling, book a free consultation today to start your journey into feeling like your best self again.

References

American Psychiatric Association. Mental Health Disparities: Women’s Mental Health. Richards, M. MD et al. 2017. psychiatry.org

WHO. Women and mental health issues. September 20202. https://www.who.int/mental_health/prevention/genderwomen/en/.

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  • You do not need to be in crisis or have a clear label to reach out. Many women come to counselling when stress around health, motherhood, pregnancy, work or family starts to affect their sleep, mood or relationships. If something keeps weighing on you, that is reason enough to talk with someone. You can share as much or as little as you like.

  • Yes, counselling gives you a calm space to talk about low mood, worry or feeling unlike yourself after having a baby. Your counsellor can help you cope with the changes of new parenthood at your own pace. For questions about medication, talk with your doctor or nurse practitioner. If you are in crisis or thinking about suicide, call or text 9-8-8, call 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433), or call 911 if you are in danger.

  • Yes, our counsellors offer a private space where you can talk about an abortion or pregnancy loss without judgment. Feelings like grief, relief, guilt or numbness can all come up, sometimes at the same time. There is no right way to feel and no timeline for it. You decide what to share and when.

  • Yes. Counselling does not replace medical care, but it can help you cope with the stress of feeling dismissed. You can work through frustration, worry and the toll that ongoing pain or health problems take on your mood. Your counsellor can also help you plan how to explain your needs at your next appointment.

  • Yes, you can meet with a counsellor online from anywhere in BC, or in person in Burnaby, Surrey or Vancouver. We offer a free 15-minute consultation by phone or video. Our intake team suggests counsellors who fit what you need, your language, your budget and where you want to meet.

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