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Living with a chronic illness can be a challenging and isolating experience. Chronic illnesses are long-term conditions that can range from mild to severe and significantly impact a person's quality of life.
Living with a long-term health condition is hard, and hard days are common. It may be time to reach out when worry, sadness or exhaustion keeps getting in the way of your life.
Feeling worn out by managing symptoms every day
Worry about what your health will be like later
Grief for the life or plans you had before
Feeling that others don't understand your illness
Pulling away from friends or things you enjoyed
Low mood on days when pain or fatigue flares
Frustration or anger at your body
Feeling tense before or after medical appointments
How counselling helps
What working on it together looks likeHow counselling helps
Early on
Understand your experience
With your counsellor, you look at how the illness affects your mood, your thoughts and your days. You name what feels hardest right now.
As you go
Cope with hard days
You practise tools for stress, pain and fatigue flares, such as mindfulness and ways to calm your body. You also find words to ask for what you need.
Over time
Move forward your way
You work out what matters to you now and set small goals that fit your energy. Life can start to feel like yours again, not only about the illness.
Approaches
Therapies our counsellors use for chronic illnessTherapies used
Living with a chronic illness can be a challenging and isolating experience. Chronic illnesses are long-term conditions that can range from mild to severe and significantly impact a person's quality of life. These may include physical or mental health conditions such as diabetes, arthritis, heart disease, anxiety disorders, and depression.
While physical symptoms are often the primary focus of treatment, the mental health impact is equally important. Research shows that individuals living with chronic illness are at a higher risk of developing anxiety, depression, and emotional distress. They may also experience isolation, helplessness, and loss of control, which can affect overall well-being.
Here are some ways counselling can support individuals with chronic illness:
Coping with stress and anxiety:
Chronic illness can be a significant source of stress and anxiety, leading to negative impacts on mental health. Counselling can help individuals develop coping strategies to manage stress and anxiety, such as relaxation techniques and mindfulness practices.
Addressing negative thoughts:
Chronic illness can cause negative thoughts, such as feelings of guilt, shame, and hopelessness. Counselling can help individuals identify and challenge these negative thoughts, replacing them with more positive and realistic ones.
Improving communication and relationships:
Chronic illness can also impact relationships with loved ones, leading to feelings of isolation and disconnection. Counselling can help individuals develop better communication skills and build stronger relationships with loved ones.
Managing pain and symptoms:
Counselling can also help individuals develop strategies to manage pain and symptoms associated with their chronic illness. This can include developing a self-care routine, engaging in physical activity, and learning relaxation techniques.
Building resilience:
Counselling can help individuals build resilience, allowing them to cope better with the challenges of living with a chronic illness. By developing resilience, individuals can improve their overall well-being and quality of life.
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You do not need to wait until things feel very bad to talk to someone. Many people reach out when worry, low mood or exhaustion from their illness keeps getting in the way of sleep, work or relationships. If you are not sure, we offer a free 15-minute consultation by phone or video to help you decide.
Counselling does not replace medical care, but it can help you cope with the stress that pain and fatigue bring. Your counsellor may use mindfulness or cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), a therapy that looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions connect, to help you notice patterns and pace your energy. Keep working with your doctor or nurse practitioner on your treatment, including any questions about medication.
No, you do not need a confirmed diagnosis to start. Many people come to counselling while they wait for tests or answers, which can be stressful on its own. You can share as much or as little about your health as you like, at your own pace.
Yes, you can meet with a counsellor online from anywhere in BC, or in person at one of our offices. Online sessions can help on days when travel, pain or low energy make it hard to leave home. Our intake team suggests counsellors who fit what you need, your language, your budget and where you want to meet.
Yes, you can talk with your counsellor about bringing a partner or family member to some sessions. A chronic illness can change roles, plans and routines at home, and talking together can help everyone understand each other. You decide who joins and when.