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Birth Trauma counselling in BC

Childbirth trauma can be triggered by many factors such as loss of control, loss of dignity, the hostile or difficult attitudes of the people around you, feelings of not being heard, or the absence of information or informed consent to medical procedures.

  • 6 counsellors
  • In person or online

Signs

What birth trauma can feel like

Many people feel shaken after a hard birth. It may be time to reach out when memories of the birth keep coming back or get in the way of sleep, bonding with your baby or daily life.

  • Memories of the birth that replay on their own
  • Feeling on edge, jumpy or easily startled
  • Avoiding the hospital, check-ups or birth stories
  • Trouble sleeping, even when the baby sleeps
  • Guilt, shame or anger about how the birth went
  • Feeling numb or far away from your baby
  • Fear of getting pregnant or giving birth again
  • Feeling alone when others say the birth went fine

How counselling helps

What working on it together looks likeHow counselling helps

  1. Early on

    Make sense of it

    You and your counsellor go over what happened at your own pace. Together you notice what still feels unsafe, and what was out of your control.

  2. As you go

    Calm the body

    You practise simple tools to settle your body when a memory or reminder hits. Some people also use EMDR, a therapy that helps the brain process painful memories.

  3. Over time

    Move forward

    You rebuild trust in your body and your bond with your baby. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), which looks at fearful thoughts, can help if you plan another birth.

Approaches

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Where

In person in Surrey, Vancouver and Victoria, or onlineWhere

About

More about birth trauma

Childbirth trauma can be triggered by many factors such as loss of control, loss of dignity, the hostile or difficult attitudes of the people around you, feelings of not being heard, or the absence of information or informed consent to medical procedures. Sometimes, the birth experience you envisioned doesn’t always go as planned. There may be events leading up to your baby’s birth that you and your partner were not expecting. If you had a difficult or traumatic birth, you’re not alone, and birth trauma therapy and PTSD counselling in Canada can be one way to help you recover emotionally.

What is Birth Trauma?

Birth trauma is a form of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) that occurs after childbirth. A normal reaction to an abnormal experience. PTSD can occur following the experience or witnessing of life-threatening events. Military combat, natural disasters, terrorist incidents, serious accidents, or violent personal assaults like rape are often recognised as traumatic events. However, a traumatic experience can be any experience involving the threat of death or serious injury to an individual or someone close to them (e.g. their baby). In many cases, trauma counselling and PTSD therapy in Canada is required for recovery after a traumatic birth.

It is important to remember that PTSD is a normal response to an abnormal (traumatic) experience. The re-experiencing of the event with flashbacks accompanied by genuine anxiety and fear may be beyond your control. These symptoms are often treated through trauma-focused therapy, EMDR therapy, and counselling support.

Birth Trauma Risk Factors

Risk factors for Birth Trauma include a very complicated mix of objective and subjective factors. These include:

  • Lengthy or very painful labour
  • Induction
  • Poor pain relief
  • Feelings of loss of control
  • High levels of medical intervention
  • Emergency deliveries (e.g. caesarean section)
  • Impersonal treatment or staff attitude issues
  • Not being listened to
  • Lack of information or consent
  • Lack of privacy and dignity
  • Fear for the baby’s safety
  • Stillbirth or complications
  • NICU/SCBU admission
  • Poor postnatal care
  • Previous trauma history

These experiences can often be addressed through postpartum PTSD therapy, trauma counselling, and emotional support therapy.

What is different about Postpartum PTSD?

It is, perhaps, difficult to understand how a process as natural as childbirth can be traumatising, but many individuals experience severe psychological distress. Postpartum Depression and PTSD is different from “baby blues” and often requires professional counselling and trauma therapy support in Canada.

Women experiencing postpartum PTSD may feel isolated, overwhelmed, and disconnected from others. These symptoms can be effectively supported through talk therapy, CBT counselling, and trauma-focused psychotherapy.

Emotional Impact of Birth Trauma

Postnatal PTSD can lead to emotional distress, relationship strain, guilt, and avoidance behaviours. Many individuals benefit from EMDR therapy for trauma, CBT therapy for anxiety, and perinatal mental health counselling.

The nature of PTSD means that flashbacks and rumination are often beyond conscious control. With the help of a trauma therapist or registered counsellor, individuals can begin to process these experiences safely.

Recovery and Support

We can help reduce isolation by offering compassionate care and professional support. With the right birth trauma counselling, postpartum PTSD treatment, and trauma-informed therapy in Canada, individuals can heal and rebuild emotional well-being.

You are not alone, and support is available through No Fear Counselling Canada, trauma therapy services, and perinatal mental health support.

References

Linder, N., Linder, I., Fridman, E., Kouadio, F., Lubin, D., Merlob, P., … & Melamed, N. (2013). Birth trauma–risk factors and short-term neonatal outcome. The Journal of Maternal-Fetal & Neonatal Medicine, 26(15), 1491-1495.

Postpartum Depression. Centre for Addiction and Mental Health. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.camh.ca/en/health-info/mental-illness-and-addiction-index/postpartum-depression

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  • You do not need to be sure before you reach out. If the birth keeps coming back in your thoughts, dreams or body, or it gets in the way of sleep, bonding or daily life, it may help to talk with someone. A birth can feel traumatic even if others call it routine and your baby is healthy. What matters is how it felt to you.

  • No, you do not need a diagnosis to start. You can come in with what you notice, such as fear, guilt or memories that will not settle. Our counsellors will not put a label on you, and you can share as much or as little as you like, when you feel ready.

  • Yes, if that feels right for you. Partners who saw a hard birth can also carry fear or helplessness afterward. Some people prefer to start on their own and bring a partner in later, and you decide what works for you.

  • Yes, you can meet online from anywhere in BC, which can be easier with a new baby at home. You can also meet in person in Surrey, Vancouver or Victoria. Our intake team suggests counsellors who fit what you need, your language, your budget and where you want to meet.

  • Please reach out for help right away. If you are in crisis or thinking about suicide, call or text 9-8-8, call 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433), or call 911 if you are in danger. You can also talk with your doctor, midwife or nurse practitioner. Please do not wait for a counselling session to get this help.

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