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Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy (STST)

Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy (STST) was pioneered by Virginia Satir around 1951. This form of therapy was created to enhance communication and relationships among family members by addressing the person’s family dynamics.

  • 7 counsellors trained
  • In person or online

What it helps with

Concerns STST can help withWhat it helps with

How it works

What a course of STST looks likeHow it works

  1. Early on

    See the patterns

    You and your counsellor explore your patterns with the iceberg, a map of the feelings, beliefs and longings that sit under what you say and do.

  2. As you go

    Practise in the room

    Through role play or family sculpting, where people or objects show how close or distant family members feel, you practise saying what you really feel.

  3. Over time

    Carry it home

    You try new ways of talking at home and bring back what happened. You and your counsellor decide together how long to keep going.

STST may suit you if you

  • Want to understand how your family shaped the way you cope
  • Keep having the same arguments and want to talk differently
  • Want to speak honestly without blaming or shutting down
  • Live in a blended family and want to feel closer
  • Like hands-on work such as role play, not only talking
  • Want to come alone, with a partner or with family

Something else may fit better if you

  • Are in crisis right now: call or text 9-8-8
  • Want a structured, skills-based plan, such as CBT
  • Want to focus on solutions, not family history
  • Do not feel safe with the person you would come with

Not sure? A free consultation can help you choose.

Where

STST in person in Burnaby, Surrey and Vancouver, or onlineWhere

About

More about STST

Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy (STST) was pioneered by Virginia Satir around 1951. This form of therapy was created to enhance communication and relationships among family members by addressing the person’s family dynamics. Though it was made with family systems in mind, STST can also be applied to couples and individuals. The family unit is seen as a whole, rather than just the sum of its parts, and is addressed by examining the underlying problems in each family member's behaviours and how they affect the other members.  STST has a strong spiritual component that focuses on change that brings people closer to a fulfilling life by reaching harmony, becoming whole, and increasing their responsibility. Attaining congruence, gaining responsibility, and increasing self-esteem are key goals in this form of therapy.

Focusing only on the presenting concern solves only the crust of the concern. Therefore, Satir therapists encourage individuals to understand the underlying unmet yearnings that are acting as the root cause for these concerns. The therapist not only focuses on building the relationship between the partners but also helps them work through past trauma to develop a greater sense of harmony, oneness, and inner peace. When past events are dealt with properly, their current behaviour and attitude will change as a result, which can positively affect the relationships they have.

Theory

STST focuses on three therapeutic systems: (1) The Intrapsychic, (2) The Interactive, and (3) The Family of Origin. Individuals can work towards change by focusing on the following:

  1. The intrapsychic system emphasizes that human experience is essentially internal. Internal components are interactive and systemic. When change occurs in one area, other areas change as well.
  2. In the Satir Model, the interactive system recognizes the differences and sameness in relationships. To resolve conflicts that arise from differences, interaction must occur with congruency.
  3. The family of origin system focuses on an individual’s actions, emotions, and perceptions in relation to their dynamic within the family unit.

The core beliefs of STST include:

  1. All humans are connected through the same Universal Life Force.
  2. The human experience, which consists of spiritual connection, doing, thinking, feeling, expecting, and desiring, is universal. Regardless of culture, circumstances, and varying environments, these processes can be accessed and changed.
  3. People are naturally good at the core of Life Energy.
  4. The meanings people adopt, along with their worries and how they cope, inform how a problem impacts their life. In other words, problems are not the issue, but how an individual faces and copes with a problem is.
  5. The focus of therapy should be on possibilities rather than problems
  6. By becoming conscious of the internal, change can occur even if external change is restricted.
  7. While the past cannot be changed, using positive energy to address the impact that the past had will lift the negative emotions in the present.
  8. At any given moment, people do the best they can. The coping that an individual was capable of is tied to their self-worth. By bringing people closer to their life energy, their self-worth can increase, and better choices can be made.
  9. The focus of any therapeutic change is wholeness, growth, and evolution. This is where transformational change happens.
  10. The focus of any therapeutic change is wholeness, growth, and evolution. This is where transformational change happens.

Techniques

STST uses experimental techniques such as:

  • Roleplaying.  Satir therapists use this technique to help the clients enact the conflicts they are facing. Once it is done, the therapists explore with them the feelings associated with what has been enacted. This then leads to the discussion on healthy new patterns of interaction. Communication skills training and behavioural rehearsal are examples of these types of activities. Couples are encouraged to practise newly learnt skills in the presence of the therapist and then outside of therapy.
  • Exploration of Satir Iceberg and Family tree. This technique involves exploring the unmet yearning that has caused a stunt in the growth of Self. This stunt produces unhealthy coping mechanisms that cause concerns between the individuals. This technique helps in understanding the root cause of the concern and explores the intergenerational trauma each partner has.
  • Family sculpting. This is a technique in which the therapist asks one or more members of the family to position the other members (and lastly themselves) in relation to one another in terms of posture, space, and attitude to portray the arranger’s perception of the family, either in general or regarding a particular situation or conflict. This technique often reveals family dynamics visually in a way that may not be adequately captured in verbal descriptions by family members. Family sculpting usually creates an easy insight into uncovering truths about the relationship.

Why Choose No Fear Counselling for Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy?

At No Fear Counselling, our experienced therapists use Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy (STST) to help individuals, couples, and families improve communication, strengthen relationships, and heal from past emotional experiences. We provide a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment where you can explore your thoughts, emotions, and relationship patterns.

Every treatment plan is tailored to your unique needs and goals. Depending on your situation, STST may be combined with Family Therapy, Couples Counselling, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), or Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to support lasting emotional growth and healthier relationships. We offer both in-person and secure online counselling services across Canada.

Start Your Healing Journey Today

Healthy relationships begin with greater understanding and stronger communication. Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy (STST) can help you improve self-awareness, heal emotional wounds, and build healthier family and relationship patterns.

No Fear Counselling offers Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy (STST) in  Vancouver, Surrey, Burnaby, Richmond, Coquitlam, Langley, Victoria, Kelowna, Penticton, as well as secure online counselling services in Canada.

Book your free consultation today and discover how Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy (STST) can support your healing journey.

References

Banmen, J. & Maki-Banmen, K. (n.d.). Satir transformational systemic therapy (in brief). Retrieved from

Edwards, Blake Griffim (2019, August 31). Remembering Family Therapist Guru Virginia Satir.

Satir Centre Singapore (n.d.). Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy. Retrieved from

https://satircentre.sg/satir-transformational-systemic-therapy/

Sinan Okur. (2020). Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy and Spirituality. Spiritual Psychology and

Counseling, 5(1), 45–64. https://doi.org/10.37898/spc.2020.5.1.094

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FAQs

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  • A Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy (STST) session mixes talking and doing. Your counsellor may ask you to map a hard moment on the iceberg, from what you did down to what you felt, expected and longed for. You may also try role play or family sculpting to see a pattern in a new way. You choose how much to share and what to try.

  • No, you can come on your own, with a partner or with family members. On your own, you can still look at the patterns you learned growing up and how they show up in your relationships now. If you come together, your counsellor helps each person speak and be heard, which can help with relationship concerns and life in a blended family.

  • You do not have to share anything you are not ready for. STST often looks at your family of origin, the family you grew up in, because old patterns can shape how you cope today, and your counsellor goes at your pace and helps you feel steady before any deeper work. If you are in crisis or thinking about suicide, call or text 9-8-8, call 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433), or call 911 if you are in danger.

  • STST looks more at feelings, family patterns and how people relate to each other. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) focuses more on the link between thoughts, feelings and actions, often with practice tasks between sessions. In STST you may use role play or the iceberg to explore what sits under a reaction. Our counsellors can talk with you about which approach suits you.

  • Yes, many parts of STST can be done by video from anywhere in BC, and you can also meet in person. Talking through the iceberg and practising new ways to speak often suit online sessions, while family sculpting may be adapted, for example with objects on a table. We offer a free 15-minute consultation by phone or video to help you decide.

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