
Ainsley Tan
Counselling Therapist
- Helps with Self Compassion, Social Anxiety, Attachment Concerns More of Ainsley's areas of practiceRelationship ConcernsSelf EsteemIdentityDepressionComplex TraumaRepairing RelationshipsPerfectionismInner Child WorkCouples/Marriage CounsellingGuilt/ShameBody ImageLife TransitionsEmotional RegulationAnxiety
- LanguagesLanguages: English
- King George Hub More places Ainsley worksBurnaby Solo District (Willingdon/Lougheed)Pitt Meadows Medical Clinic (Harris/122 ave)
Ainsley believes that counselling is a brave endeavour of getting to know yourself better, learning new skills, and reconnecting with your life in a way that matters to you. While she believes that each person is the expert in their own life, she also believes that we all need support sometimes. Ainsley hopes to provide a gentle and comforting space for you to feel seen, heard, and accepted as you explore your life and reconnect with yourself.
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Ainsley believes that counselling is a brave endeavour of getting to know yourself better, learning new skills, and reconnecting with your life in a way that matters to you. While she believes that each person is the expert in their own life, she also believes that we all need support sometimes. Ainsley hopes to provide a gentle and comforting space for you to feel seen, heard, and accepted as you explore your life and reconnect with yourself.
Ainsley knows that through a positive relationship between client and counsellor, growth and change happen; therefore, Ainsley works to create a genuine relationship with each client. In this therapeutic relationship, Ainsley and her clients work through emotional wounds in a way that feels meaningful. Ainsley acknowledges that while all humans have commonalities in their experience, such as each of us having the capacity for growth, each person is different. Thus, Ainsley tailors her approach to each client.
Ainsley’s approach is person-centered and is tailored to each client by drawing from many different therapeutic modalities, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Internal Family Systems Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Somatic Therapy, Self-Compassion Therapy, Ego-States Therapy, and Observed Experiential Integration (OEI). Ainsley wishes to meet you where you are at and move at a pace that works for you. She would be delighted to connect with you!
Ainsley offers family counselling, couples counselling, and individual counselling, with particular experience supporting clients through complex trauma and attachment concerns.
Ainsley sees clients in person at our King George Hub, Burnaby Solo District, and Pitt Meadows Medical Clinic locations.
Counselling types
3 typesAreas of practice
17 areas- Self Compassion
- Social Anxiety
- Attachment Concerns
- Relationship Concerns
- Self Esteem
- Identity
- Depression
- Complex Trauma
- Repairing Relationships
- Perfectionism
- Inner Child Work
- Couples/Marriage Counselling
- Guilt/Shame
- Body Image
- Life Transitions
- Emotional Regulation
- Anxiety
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Therapies offered
- Attachment-Based TherapyAttachment is something we all need as humans.
- Person-Centered TherapyPerson-Centred Therapy is an approach first created by Carl Rogers.
- Narrative TherapyNarrative therapy suggests that distress can often result from people identifying so much with the problems they struggle with that it becomes difficult to separate it from who they are.
- MindfulnessMindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment with openness and acceptance.
- Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), through emotional resiliency and emotional connection.
- Emotionally Focused Individual TherapyStruggling with overwhelming emotions, unresolved trauma , or relationship issues ?
- Somatic TherapiesAre you feeling stuck in your mental health journey?
- Observed Experiential Integration (OEI)Observed Experiential Integration (OEI) Therapy is a cutting-edge therapeutic approach designed to help individuals process and resolve emotional trauma and distress.
- Emotionally Focused TherapyEmotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples is a therapeutic technique invented by Sue Johnson, which utilizes emotions and attachment as its scientific basis in helping couples repair their damaged relationships .
- Strength-Based TherapyStrength-Based Therapy is a positive and client-centered treatment method that is based on the individual’s strengths, capabilities, and internal resources, rather than his problems.
- Trauma-InformedTrauma-Informed Therapy is not one specific kind of therapy.
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)Dr. Richard C. Schwartz introduced the theory of Internal Family Systems (IFS) in the 1980s.
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)EMDR was developed in the 1980’s by Francine Shapiro after a chance discovery that when she was recalling past trauma, rapidly moving her eyes back and forth seemed to quickly diminish her distress.
Fees and funding
Counselling Therapist
$120 - $180per 50-minute session
Is my funding accepted?
Yes, we accept .
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- Autism Funding
- Canadian Armed Forces (CAF)
- Crime Victim Assistance Program (CVAP)
- Employment Assistance Program (EAP)
- Extended Health Coverage
- First Nations Health Authority (FNHA)
- ICBC
- IFHP
- Low Cost / Free Counselling
- Partners in Canadian Veterans Rehabilitation Services (PCVRS)
- RCMP
- Veterans Affairs Canada (VAC)
- WorkBC
Where Ainsley works
3 locationsSee all counsellors in Surrey, Burnaby or Pitt Meadows
Reviews
I've had nothing but positive experiences with Ainsley Tan during our sessions. They consistently ensure that our sessions are a safe, welcoming space where I can voice my concerns freely and without judgment. Ainsley's supportive and attentive approach makes it easy for me to open up and share what’s on my mind. I always leave feeling reassured and empowered. I would highly recommend Ainsley to anyone looking for a compassionate, non-judgmental counsellor who creates an environment where you can truly feel at ease.
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